When you’re in a relationship with a man who doesn’t love you back the right way, sometimes the best thing you can do is walk away. This act gives both you and him the space needed to gain clarity.
Why Walking Away Works
When you step away, it creates room for your heart to heal. For him, it allows the chance to see what he had. Imagine being so close to the Empire State Building that you can’t see it. Sometimes, distance is what helps you appreciate what you have.
I once had a relationship where I was unsure about marriage. I was open about my doubts, and my partner, Lisa, simply said, “Okay,” and walked away. It was a shock to me, especially since I knew she loved me.
In time, I saw her with someone else—someone who had everything I didn’t. This forced me to confront my feelings. Eventually, I realized Lisa was the one I wanted to marry. Her walking away gave me the clarity I needed.
Why Some Women Struggle to Walk Away
Walking away is hard. Attachments, fears, and manipulations can make it seem impossible. In relationships with narcissists, they often use tactics like love bombing to reel you back in. They create a cycle of hope and disappointment, making it even harder to break free.
The Importance of Self-Respect
Being “thirsty” isn’t attractive. If you chase someone who doesn’t value you, it only leads to disrespect. The key is to set boundaries and maintain self-respect. A person who chases loses respect, while a person who holds their ground commands respect.
In my experience, the first woman who walked away from me was the only one who truly made me realize her worth. It’s important to set standards and expect to be treated with respect.
Pursuit vs. Chasing
There’s a big difference between a man pursuing and chasing. A pursuer reads your signals and respects your boundaries. A chaser ignores your boundaries and won’t stop even when you’re not interested. Respectful pursuit is attractive; chasing is not.
The Value of Self-Love
Know your worth and what you bring to the table. Don’t settle because of age or societal pressure. Live a fulfilled life as an individual. When you do your personal work, you attract what you are.
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Managing Access
Think of your life like a home. Not everyone deserves the same level of access. Some people should only get to the front door, while others earn the right to the deeper parts of your life. Don’t rush intimacy; let it be earned.
Final Thoughts
Walking away is not easy, but it’s sometimes necessary for your growth and self-respect. Remember, if you’re caught up in a toxic cycle, it prevents the right person from coming into your life. Keep your standards high and your self-respect intact.
